It is not okay to abuse someone, either verbally or physically. Whether it’s your own children or someone else’s, Islam strictly forbids any kind of abuse.
Kids are the most wonderful thing in the world. If you have a child, you are one of the lucky people. Children are pure and they learn everything you teach them while growing up. They will behave exactly as you do.
Most of the parents don’t think that their marital problems and arguments with their spouse will badly affect their child’s mental health. Now a day all many desi parents are so frustrated and they just treat their children like an animal. They abuse them physically by physical punishment, mentally by abusive words. Their frustration and anger to put an end to children.
Hadith of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) about children
Children are the flower of heaven, we have to raise them with proper care and love. Our Prophet (peace be upon him) was too kind to children. His life gave us a great example of how to treat a child.
Home is the first place of learning, and if you treat them wisely, you will raise a great leader for the country in the near future. You should not compare our children. Every child has its own nature and thinking ability, some are sensitive and some are strong enough to face problems, so we just treat them according to their expertise and nature.
Now child abuse is on the rise, and the reason is that we compare our children to other people’s children. We cannot make a great person with this behavior. If this continues for a long time, it will destroy future talent.
In order for children to learn and grow in a comfortable environment, we should be very kind to them.