Marrying a widow in Islam is considered Sunnah, but with it, there are some Hadiths that state everything very clearly and answer many questions.
With it, there are a few questions that are frequently asked on the Internet, so we at The Islamic Information decided to answer all of them for you.
Marrying the Widow of your own Brother in Islam
You can marry the widow of your own brother, if she is expecting then you must wait until she has her baby. If you’re married, then you will need the permission of your first wife to marry the widow of your brother.
Marrying your Wife’s Sister, who is now a widow
You are not allowed to marry your wife’s sister if her husband passes away, you still cannot marry your wife’s sister, as keeping two women (from the same father) is not allowed in Islam.
Marrying your Widow cousin
You can marry your cousin if she has lost her husband, but if she is expecting then you must follow the same rule as we’ve told above for the widows that are expecting. If you’re unmarried, it would be easier for you to marry her, but if you’re married, you would find it tough as wives usually disagree on marrying. But if your wife doesn’t allow it, then you shouldn’t marry.
But you can financially support your cousin so make her meet her daily life needs.
Marrying your Widows with children
Hadiths highly encourage marrying such women, but if you’re sure that you will be able to love the kids as your own, then you’re good to go. But if you fear that you might not be able to support the family or the expenses that come with children, then you might wanna reconsider your move.
What to do if my family objects to marrying a Widow?
If your wife has allowed you, and you’re capable of doing justice between two marriages but still if your family objects then you need to take them into consideration and let them know about how good it will do to the other person.
But if you’re a grown-up man with a wife and grown-up children, and if marrying someone can break the home and kids of your first wife, then you seriously do not need to marry at all. Instead, you can give the widow monthly allowances so she can have a better life without marrying you.
What to do if my wife does not allow me to marry a widow?
As discussed above, if your wife disallows it, then you shouldn’t marry that person. Instead, you can give the person money so she can meet her daily life requirements.
Marrying Widows are a SUNNAH
Marrying widows is a sunnah as it is been done by Prophet Muhammad PBUH as well. And if someone is marrying one then you shouldn’t question as a friend but should support that person as that can make one helpless woman get a ray of hope.
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What if the woman is divorced? and have no children and she can earn money to support herself. On the other hand, another man is married too and happy with his first and only wife but wants to give support to divorced woman by marrying her.
1-Is it allowed and consider a good or bad deed in Islam?
2-In same situation, if your current wife don’t allow you to marry the divorced woman mentioned above. What should the man do then?
Yes, she can earn money for herself. If marrying the second time breaks your first marriage, then we will never suggest you to go for it. Furthermore, you can support the other woman (who is now a widow) by giving a monthly allowance, this way you will be able to support her without marrying her. If your wife agrees on the fact that you can marry another time with this woman, then you’re good to go.
Jazak Allah Khairan, Brothers and Sisters at About Islam. Wonderful clarification.
Many Muslims are not aware of this and they go by what their family traditions practice, especially in India, In India, there are many instances of the deceased wife’s parents marrying off her blood sister to her husband. Also, the brother marrying his blood sister’s daughter.
These practices are prevalent among the Hindus of India, Since, Indian Muslims are reverts from Hinduism, they are continuing this practice which is prohibited in Islam, reconciling to the fact that their ancestors practiced this and so they will continue with the same.
As-Salaam-Alaikum. I was a widow and am now remarried. I have a son with a physical disability, and I am currently living in my husband’s ex-wife’s house, as they were married in the community of property. However, he constantly uses words like “this is his house” and implies that it belongs to him and his ex-wife. This makes me feel very inferior, as I don’t place importance on materialistic value. Where is the fairness in this situation?
Wa-Alaikum-Salaam. I understand that you are feeling inferior and concerned about the fairness of your current living situation. It is important to remember that fairness and equality are fundamental principles in Islam. In regards to property ownership, Islam recognizes the rights of individuals and the importance of treating others with kindness and respect. In your case, it is advisable to have an open and honest conversation with your husband about your feelings and concerns. Express your desire for a harmonious and equitable living arrangement. It is important to communicate your perspective and emphasize the importance of mutual respect and understanding within a marriage. Additionally, seeking guidance from a local Islamic scholar or imam can provide further insight and advice specific to your situation. They can provide guidance based on Islamic teachings and principles, helping you navigate through any challenges you may be facing. Remember, communication, understanding, and seeking guidance are key in resolving conflicts and finding a fair and balanced solution. May Allah guide you and grant you ease in your circumstances.
Assalam o alikum;
Brothers and sister through Islam , I’m 19 year old my name is Hafiz Muhammad abdullah I had a question to ask that there is a girl her name is Alisha age 22 she is widowed 2 years ago I wanna marry her but I don’t know how I could ask her about it cause when ever I talk about his life she get depressed and I don’t want it to happened did Hadith and Sunnah show as any path of doing Soo , I wanted to give her a better life as I have heard and seen such women’s aren’t treated well by society as for myself I love her by my whole heart ❤️ pray for me and have a nice day
Allah Hafiz ( fii Iman ullah )
Assalam o alikum Muhammad Abdullah,
It’s admirable that you have such a kind and compassionate heart, and your intention to marry Alisha to provide her with a better life is truly commendable. The emotional struggle she might be facing due to her past can make it challenging to approach the topic. However, there are a few things you can consider.
Firstly, it is crucial to approach the situation with sensitivity and empathy. Understand that she may still be grieving and healing from her loss. It would be wise to give her some time and space to come to terms with her emotions before discussing marriage.
When the time feels right, you can express your intentions to her in a gentle and understanding manner. Assure her that you genuinely care for her well-being and happiness. Let her know that your desire to marry her stems from your love and respect for her as an individual, not just out of sympathy.
In terms of seeking guidance from Hadith and Sunnah, it is always beneficial to consult with knowledgeable individuals or scholars who can offer advice based on Islamic teachings. They can provide you with specific guidance on how to approach the situation and navigate through it in the most appropriate manner.
Also, it’s important to remember that society’s perception should not hinder your decision to marry someone you love. As long as your intentions are pure and you are fulfilling the requirements of Islam, you should focus on building a happy and fulfilling life together.
May Allah bless you with wisdom and guide you on this journey. Keep your intentions pure and sincere, and may He grant you and Alisha a joyful and harmonious life together.
Allah Hafiz (fii Iman ullah)